Strength, Closure, Peace, Justice

 Hello


2 years ago someone said some really horrible things they wanted to do to me made

threats that were on bodycam and to a judge. This person has fought for over 2 years 

on this case believing that a woman should not have stood up to him.

He is from Pakistan and women are not willing to stand up to men there which is so sad.

Something in me changed I stood up and stood my ground. Layton City Prosecutors, Judges,

Victim's Advocates. So many people who supported my belief that there was right and wrong.

I did it for other women, I did it for myself, I did it to stand up and say it is not right.

Every hearing hour after hour I always showed up, the judge would always ask if I was there

I would always say I always will be. The prosecutor let me know today I won, he is pleading guilty 

to the charges against me and to charges which were worse against another woman.


In a few weeks sentencing will happen and I will get my chance to say what I want to say or 

should I say what I need to say. Do I believe it will make a difference with him? No! 

But I want it heard, I want it on record and I want somewhere inside of himself for those words

to replay from time to time. 

Because I dared to stand up 2 other victims came forward and stood strong. 

To the people who have had to listen to my venting and frustration it means more then 

you will ever know! My daughter Cashlyn, Michael W, Steve Rankin Luann Fronk 

and so many more who knew I needed to do this for myself for reasons I could not explain.

I love you all and appreciate you having my back throughout this!!

There was a peace today I have not felt in a long time, a moment of closure, knowing justice 

was served this time. Jill 1 - Bully 0

Listen to your inner voice trust those feelings. When you feel you need to do something because you believe it is the right thing stand by it no matter how hard it is.

I do know my Heavenly Father will judge him later on and yes I pray for my enemy.

I hope he realizes how wrong it all is and makes changes, one can hope right?


Now back to my regularly scheduled life .....







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